Even if some dudebro can't understand how positive having a kid is for your life, they do understand when I tell them about coming home, looking at your child,

Even if some dudebro can't understand how positive having a kid is for your life, they do understand when I tell them about coming home, looking at your child, and saying to yourself "I can not fail, that is why, and I will do everything in my power not to". Having something to motivate you that way is universal.