He tries to not only tell men what not to do (be bros, swear on the job, work long hours, disrupt things), but also women what to do (be emphatic and compassion

He tries to not only tell men what not to do (be bros, swear on the job, work long hours, disrupt things), but also women what to do (be emphatic and compassionate, feminine, polite, don't disrupt things). Is he really doing women a service here? I also think drawing daughters or nieces into such arguments is a very cheap shot. Why not just let people get on with their lives...