Maybe - but maybe mhurran is right - I've definitely been the guy that works weekends at the job where no one works weekends. It's not healthy - and work life

Maybe - but maybe mhurran is right - I've definitely been the guy that works weekends at the job where no one works weekends. It's not healthy - and work life imbalance is usually driven by others, but sometimes not. And to fix it you need to figure out what the cause is. Looking at yourself shouldn't take that long if your job is the problem, and if you are the problem well you should attack that. In my case working myself to the bone was not a healthy response to a bad breakup but admitting that took some time.