I believe the article mentions how she started dating the coworker before joining Github. Even if she started dating him after she joined, you need to take the

I believe the article mentions how she started dating the coworker before joining Github. Even if she started dating him after she joined, you need to take the whole thing in context. The founder's wife is attempting to inject herself into their relationship, and a guy hits on her and punishes her for rejecting him. In context, the hula hooping episode can easily be a trigger for the allegedly sexist culture at GitHub.