This is a pet theory I've had but never bothered to research in detail. In all honesty, what is the dating scene like in the SV? Are loads of guys still single

This is a pet theory I've had but never bothered to research in detail. In all honesty, what is the dating scene like in the SV? Are loads of guys still single, desperate, and oh-so-awkward in those sorts of situations? (in caricature , I am imagining me and my classmates in HS and Uni) I feel like that would help explain so much of what I read (obviously doesn't make it much better)