Well what I mean is that these are serious accusations, not just something you say "just like that". So there is a backlash, because people try to defend their

Well what I mean is that these are serious accusations, not just something you say "just like that". So there is a backlash, because people try to defend their turf (a ka their parade). Society seems to be divided in people who automatically believe all such accusations, and people who ask questions (and probably also people who automatically disbelieve them, to be fair). To me it seems fair to ask questions if so much is at stake.