Either the person in question behaved in a toxic manner, and was called out for it secretly, or else she did not behave in a toxic manner and the secretive call

Either the person in question behaved in a toxic manner, and was called out for it secretly, or else she did not behave in a toxic manner and the secretive calling-out is the toxic behavior. Who's telling the truth? I wasn't there for any of it - so I have no idea.