I've been where you are...I'm now in my mid-30's. I remember listening to a Tony Robbins tape that talked about asking yourself the right questions and how it s

I've been where you are...I'm now in my mid-30's. I remember listening to a Tony Robbins tape that talked about asking yourself the right questions and how it shaped our future. For example, if you say to yourself "Why should I do X because after all (insert something negative here)". Instead, what if you were to say "How do I do X and have fun doing it?" What this does is change your personal tone from one of despair to one of hope. Hope is the key. Find your source for hope and you will no longer feel fucked.