The problem isn't wanting something better, the problem is that you decided to buy those things without earning it and with money you did not have. What? Most

The problem isn't wanting something better, the problem is that you decided to buy those things without earning it and with money you did not have. What? Most people don't pay cash for a house or save up the full 18-year cost before having a kid. He made these choices before he was diagnosed and they weren't unreasonable given their salaries at the time.