Sorry nodemaker. This reminds me of a blog post I have that's a long time coming. (kinda painful to face). My Dad passed away a year and a few weeks ago of Lun

Sorry nodemaker. This reminds me of a blog post I have that's a long time coming. (kinda painful to face). My Dad passed away a year and a few weeks ago of Lung Cancer. I am furious that his pain doc didn't warn us that the day he started taking the heavy drugs, might be the last lucid day in his life. We never got a chance to find out his final wishes. 35% is much better chance than my Dad was given, so I hope he pulls through and it's super important that he embraces the 35% like it's 100%. But if it goes downhill, make sure before the pain meds are given, that last wishes are discussed. It's difficult to discuss, but don't be shy about it. Discuss it as a "just in case" scenario. Also, @bananas' Dad was very wise. Listen to his advice.