I hated that question when I was dating also. I usually answered "many things". I also do not think my work defines me. It also brings to mind the movie "Sabri

I hated that question when I was dating also. I usually answered "many things". I also do not think my work defines me. It also brings to mind the movie "Sabrina" with Audrey Hepburn, who father in the movie was a chauffeur so that he could spend his days reading books while between driving stints.