I suck at auditory stuff in general, and if I have to take notes on something, I can't process any of what's being said and must basically try to frantically tr

I suck at auditory stuff in general, and if I have to take notes on something, I can't process any of what's being said and must basically try to frantically transcribe what's being said. The idea of expecting everyone to take notes has never made sense to me. Are they there to learn your subject or practice transcription skills?