It's not only about extremes. For one, if you are paying taxes (and otherwise accepting that you live in a republic where you don't get the exact set of laws t

It's not only about extremes. For one, if you are paying taxes (and otherwise accepting that you live in a republic where you don't get the exact set of laws that you want), most people would feel somewhat entitled to benefit from the use of those taxes, which includes government jobs (or state funded research). What would be hypocritical is arguing specifically that your own entitlement is more worthy of government support. I see no hypocrisy in partaking in benefits, while arguing that no one (including yourself) should have to pay for them and no one should benefit either.