What are we supposed to say to this? You've been so vague that are we supposed to take your expert word or believe you're a close minded snob? What do you do?

What are we supposed to say to this? You've been so vague that are we supposed to take your expert word or believe you're a close minded snob? What do you do? How do you help? Do you think you're suffering from an anti-'survior' bias where you can only see the ones who continue to fail?