+1 for this. Sometimes you just have to move on, no matter how much you want to get back at someone. One criteria I use is how much is my motives driven by emo

+1 for this. Sometimes you just have to move on, no matter how much you want to get back at someone. One criteria I use is how much is my motives driven by emotion. If it boils down to "I want to see this person suffer.", its better to move on.