>You want to do as far opposite from this as reasonably possible. And be crushed by the arrogant, cruel jerks. (I realize becoming the enemy is in no way defe

>You want to do as far opposite from this as reasonably possible. And be crushed by the arrogant, cruel jerks. (I realize becoming the enemy is in no way defeating the enemy, but using the enemy's tactics to advance better principles and achieve a just outcome is War 101 stuff. "Not giving a fuck what other people think" does not imply being mean or rude to people. If anything, the people who need this advice the most are the people who already give too much importance to external signals and won't become arrogant just by becoming more confident.)