Well, ya know the saying "It takes a village to raise a child.". That same mindset assumes the entire village is the family. So if you grow up in that world, yo

Well, ya know the saying "It takes a village to raise a child.". That same mindset assumes the entire village is the family. So if you grow up in that world, you don't want to disappoint that community. >>If you're not pissing people off you're doing something wrong. I definitely try to run my life as opposite from this as reasonably possible. "Reasonably" being the word that's very debatable.