What 22 year old plans for their parent's cancer? Or really has a solid idea of exactly what their future has in store? He was doing what people in their earl

What 22 year old plans for their parent's cancer? Or really has a solid idea of exactly what their future has in store? He was doing what people in their early 20s are supposed to do: take risks. He was probably involved in startups before his mom got sick. Let's not beat him up for doing what many of us are doing right now, then getting caught in an unpredictable and terrible situation and trying to do what he thought was right at the time under a lot of stress and emotion.