There's a book I'm just beginning, When Helping Hurts[1], that dives into this subject deeper. Complicated for sure. [1] http://www.amazon.com/When-Helping-Hur

There's a book I'm just beginning, When Helping Hurts[1], that dives into this subject deeper. Complicated for sure. [1] http://www.amazon.com/When-Helping-Hurts-Alleviate-Yourself/dp/0802457061 http://www.amazon.com/When-Helping-Hurts-Alleviate-Yourself/...