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The beautiful girl crunch For most guys in the bay area, the beautiful girl crunch is a bigger problem than the Series A crunch (this somewhat applies to desig

The beautiful girl crunch For most guys in the bay area, the beautiful girl crunch is a bigger problem than the Series A crunch (this somewhat applies to designers as well). The difference in difficulty between dating a beautiful girl and an unattractive one is remarkable--I frequently hear guys say that for unattractive girls they can find multiple great candidates without really looking but can't find a single beautiful girl for a dating role no matter how hard they look. First, of all the canonical terrible advice advisors give, being cheap is among the worst. I have never seen a hardup guy regret being generous. For most beautiful girls, this is as much about fairness and feeling valued as it is about the money. And of course, if girls are going to turn down the certainty of dating a handsome, confident sales guy, they should get a reward for taking that risk. If you’re going to look outside of your network of friends from your Defense of the Ancients guild (usually a mistake, but sometimes there are truly no other options), focus on recruiting girls outside of the valley. Finally, most engineers are not willing to spend the time it takes to develop a normal social life with regular non-technical people whereas they might develop normal personality traits and meet someone nice. You can't outsource this though--you have to do it yourself. Footnote: * Every time someone from the government asks me what they can do to help hard-up engineers, I always say a version of "The only thing you need to do is fix immigration for beautiful girls." We need more beautiful, financially desperate girls from third world countries whose standards are not as high as American ones.

dfraser992 13y ago
EXCELLENT metaphor!
YokoZar 13y ago
I once (sarcastically) argued in a student newspaper that attractive people should be favored in college admissions, since students would much rather share a campus with more attractive people. To me it made more sense in terms of promoting the desirability of attending the school than a whole lot of existing practices, such as favoring athletes or the children of alumni.
GFK_of_xmaspast 13y ago
And sometimes when you interview at a place you get the feeling it's full of creeps and fedoras and you moonwalk on out of there as soon as you possibly can.
quietthrow 13y ago
"We need more beautiful, financially desperate girls from third world countries whose standards are not as high as American ones." Simply Brilliant!!!

dfraser992 13y ago

EXCELLENT metaphor!

YokoZar 13y ago

I once (sarcastically) argued in a student newspaper that attractive people should be favored in college admissions, since students would much rather share a campus with more attractive people. To me it made more sense in terms of promoting the desirability of attending the school than a whole lot of existing practices, such as favoring athletes or the children of alumni.

GFK_of_xmaspast 13y ago

And sometimes when you interview at a place you get the feeling it's full of creeps and fedoras and you moonwalk on out of there as soon as you possibly can.

quietthrow 13y ago

"We need more beautiful, financially desperate girls from third world countries whose standards are not as high as American ones." Simply Brilliant!!!