Ah and yet, this still does not qualify as something that "hurts the feelings of the Chinese people." If you don't hear that magical phrase, they don't really

Ah and yet, this still does not qualify as something that "hurts the feelings of the Chinese people." If you don't hear that magical phrase, they don't really mean it. Reference: http://www.danwei.org/foreign_affairs/a_map_of_hurt_feelings.php http://www.danwei.org/foreign_affairs/a_map_of_hurt_feelings...