Even assuming the need, why do you feel the need to lecture your user when she wants to use the term 'Miss' or 'Mrs' to identify herself? I mean, it's one thing

Even assuming the need, why do you feel the need to lecture your user when she wants to use the term 'Miss' or 'Mrs' to identify herself? I mean, it's one thing to provide neutral options like 'Ms' or '', sure, go ahead... but are you operating a web site or a culture war?