Ah ok, fair enough. I figured you were using it to make only girls available to boys, and vice versa. Still, if that permission is giving you problems because

Ah ok, fair enough. I figured you were using it to make only girls available to boys, and vice versa. Still, if that permission is giving you problems because of people's reactions, just showing the entire friend list (with paging, of course) may not be a bad idea.