"replacing the car's serpentine belt and tensioner, or sorting out the electrical fault that'd stopped the taillights working" [I don't have a car.] The proble

"replacing the car's serpentine belt and tensioner, or sorting out the electrical fault that'd stopped the taillights working" [I don't have a car.] The problem is, once your home is up and running there's not much for you to do, but "unmanly" house chores form a never-ending stream. "Men work" scale (do it good once, it's good for a few years), but "women work" doesn't (wipe the floor today, still needs to be done again in a week). "the men I've known who've been married to your "equal breadwinner women" haven't been men I've found particularly worthy of respect" Well, most people are a kludge. We tend to have higher expectations for men for some reason, but at the end of day we are still human, flawed and all. Should find a solution that works for almost everybody. "what kind of programming do you do that you touch it only rarely?" The one when you "fly" your product most of the time as a pilot and only occasionally modify it as a developer.