It seems the reward of not feeling miserable is comparable to asking her out. I'm so averse to feeling miserable from rejection I haven't asked anyone out on a

It seems the reward of not feeling miserable is comparable to asking her out. I'm so averse to feeling miserable from rejection I haven't asked anyone out on a date since the 5th grade. It ended poorly. I feel miserable from just listening to their thoughts. It probably varies for different guys.