what if they haven't done their "big thing" yet? What constitutes a "significant accomplishment" anyway? * building an awesome web site ? * raising a child ?

what if they haven't done their "big thing" yet? What constitutes a "significant accomplishment" anyway? * building an awesome web site ? * raising a child ? * graduating college ? * overcoming cancer ? * learning to play the piano? I do agree you will get to know somebody very quickly if you ask these kinds of question. I am 30 and I will review them in my time.