> I’m now 33, happily married with two kids Then you are now part of a team, that has at least two goals: Raising Kids, and Keep Being Happily Married. Reach

> I’m now 33, happily married with two kids Then you are now part of a team, that has at least two goals: Raising Kids, and Keep Being Happily Married. Reaching those goals needs teamwork. Every minute you cannot spend on your goals is a minute your teammate has to compensate for. Balancing the need to succeed and family is now a team-problem, that requires a team-solution. I would not try to solve this issue solo.