For people who grew up not drinking in a culture that emphasizes drinking (often in excess), it can be hard. Perhaps you should look at this problem from anoth

For people who grew up not drinking in a culture that emphasizes drinking (often in excess), it can be hard. Perhaps you should look at this problem from another angle: Maybe it's not that all these people who have personal problems are trying to get people to stop drinking, but instead it's that we should educate and encourage non-drinkers to still attend our events and not drink? Clearly there is a group of people who still think they're being pressured to drink, and some encouragement will make them more comfortable?