Is spoiling for a fight necessarily a bad thing? As far as your saying goes - fair enough. The problem with total freedom, however, is that it's sort of an ide

Is spoiling for a fight necessarily a bad thing? As far as your saying goes - fair enough. The problem with total freedom, however, is that it's sort of an idealism. Now, I'm an idealistic kind of guy, but I realize that the idea is contradictory. Your freedom to feel "decent" infringes upon my freedom to drop my favorite dirty words in front of you, and vice-versa (though personally I don't give a fuck about being "made to feel inhuman"). So, what do we do?