Is something actually offensive or profane if nobody actually cares? Excluding people who "care on the behalf of people who might care" ("we shouldn't do this,

Is something actually offensive or profane if nobody actually cares? Excluding people who "care on the behalf of people who might care" ("we shouldn't do this, not because it offends me, but because it may offend others"), is anybody actually bothered by the word "fuck"? Well I mean, also excluding isolated religious communities in Lancaster county that still use minced oaths....