As one who has checked off most of that growth-list, I disagree with him. You can't help giving a fuck, you can choose to do the opposite of what common sense

As one who has checked off most of that growth-list, I disagree with him. You can't help giving a fuck, you can choose to do the opposite of what common sense tells you, but if you are socially inept it's just likely to screw you over. When expressing something profound (i.e. not just chitchat) I almost always assess the situation first, are these my friends? does what I have to say make a difference? most importantly, am I positive what I say and how I'll say it will be respected? Saying something correct, in an incorrect manner relative to the situation, will not get you the respect the author claims. His post is wholly for him, just another all-knowing Oprah. I went running in the street, stripped down to only my pants, in the rain, singing it's raining men. My company loved it, my dad probably wouldn't have.