Could be something with the ability to make choices and control of things. For instance when you are driving as a kid it is "are we there yet" but when you are

Could be something with the ability to make choices and control of things. For instance when you are driving as a kid it is "are we there yet" but when you are in control you know how long it will take. Lots of waiting around for rides, parents, bells to ring when you are a kid.