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This thread made me want to cry..... this thread..... The irony in this manipulative[1] use of language in a topic on sexism is outstanding. Seriously, could
by 001sky 13y ago
This thread made me want to cry..... this thread.....
The irony in this manipulative[1] use of language in a topic on sexism is outstanding.
Seriously, could you have tried any harder (to fan the flames)[2]?
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[1] http://wis-wander.weizmann.ac.il/a-chemical-signal-in-human-tears#.Ut8ZgCj0DZs http://wis-wander.weizmann.ac.il/a-chemical-signal-in-human-...
[2] eg, courtesy of google
http://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudreau/2011/01/11/crying-at-work-a-womans-burden-study-men-sex-testosterone-tears-arousal/ http://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudreau/2011/01/11/crying-...
Crying At Work, A Woman's Burden
There are few situations where crying is “acceptable.” The worst offenses, she found, are crying in a public meeting or because of work stress, like a looming deadline or coworker disagreement, because it is considered disruptive and weak. Crying in a private performance evaluation is also considered unprofessional and often manipulative.
The only exception to criticism is crying due to a personal loss like death or divorce, and even that has its limits. “If the crying is excessive–repeated or prolonged, rather than a single episode–it could be considered unstable or weak,”
My question to you is what were you thinking in this choice of language?
- tomasien 13y agoDidn't consider it, I'm a man though. That seems relevant. I also can not have achieved any of the chemical benefits of crying because you aren't near me. So... I don't know. I don't even really know what you're trying to say. If you're saying my use of language was extremely strong, you're right - intentionally so because I actually felt like crying and did, in fact, cry a tiny bit after reading these comments. They're horrible and I love HN so much, I can't stand that it can't deal with gender issues in a reasonable way.
- 001sky 13y agoDidn't consider it, I'm a man though. You seem to dismiss the plausibility/utility of feigned empathy.[1] Headline> Babies do fake cry to get attention according to research http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/10577825/Babies-do-fake-cry-to-get-attention-according-to-research.html http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/10577825/Bab... [1] Nothing personal, just connecting the dots.
- tomasien 13y agoSure, just clarifying. I figured it was relevant to my mindset.