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Hey, slurs like "retarded" are offensive and you should reconsider your use of them. edit: Thank you for editing your comment.
by flyt 13y ago
Hey, slurs like "retarded" are offensive and you should reconsider your use of them.
edit: Thank you for editing your comment.
- brandonhsiao 13y agoSorry, wasn't thinking. I changed it.
- gnerd 13y agoOut of interest, could you enlighten me as to why the word "retard" is a slur but "dumb" isn't? Putting colloquial use aside, both are valid words that describe conditions, so if one is a slur, isn't the other? Where is the line?
- pbreit 13y agoIn the US, "intellectual disabilities" used to be more commonly called "mentally retarded" and referring to someone as "retarded" or "a retard" became (or was always) offensive.
- 3pt14159 13y agoDumb isn't used to denote what its original meaning is (a person unable to speak - we would use the word "mute" today). Dumb just means stupid, as if one is culpable for their own stupidity. Retard in its noun form literally means a mentally handicapped person. So by using it to offend a non-mentally handicapped person (albeit, a stupid one), you are concurrently levelling an offence against the mentally handicapped in general and since the mentally handicapped are not deemed culpable for their situation, this is deemed socially unacceptable.
- codezero 13y agoIt literally means delayed in time, we use it in physics a lot, in the context of people and development it applies to those whose education (or cognitive ability) is delayed in time.
- gnerd 13y agoThis is the way I use the word too.
- Crito 13y agoI think the word is typically pronounced slightly differently (more correctly?) when used that way. This clip from The Hangover uses the slight differences in pronounciation for comedic effect: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoendYt_ZJ0 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoendYt_ZJ0 (skip to 0:45, video contains mildly offensive humor). Obviously the obsolete medical usage, now offensive usage, is just the regular word meaning delayed, but I think that somehow that specialized usage strayed from the generic usage over time.
- codezero 13y agoNope, never pronounced it different but clearly context is important :)
- thaumasiotes 13y agoWell, no, a mentally "retarded" person is not expected to develop further. They're behind, but nobody thinks they'll catch up. "Stunted" would be a more accurate term than "retarded"; the latter is just a euphemism.
- 3pt14159 13y agoWhich is why my comments said "Retard in its noun form" obviously retard has a verb form that means to slow. I used it in engineering a lot.
- mikeash 13y ago"Retard" means somebody with a significant mental handicap, while "dumb" is a more usual sort of stupidity. It's extremely strange. It is socially acceptable to criticize and make fun of the intelligence of someone with an IQ of 71, but not an IQ of 69. I can't explain it. But that's how it is.
- brandonhsiao 13y agoMy own suspicion is that it's a matter of fashion. More specifically, there are lots of problems in the world, and someone is always going to be insulted when one of them is referenced lightly. Right now it's fashionable to treat the word "retard" as a politically incorrect slur, so those particular people have social permission to complain about it. What I can't make up my mind about is whether or to what extent we should approve or disapprove of the use of these words.
- onedev 13y agoI disagree. I don't think "retarded" was used with the connotation that you thought it was used in.
- matt-attack 13y agoHey, I find people being offended by the use of certain words offensive in and of itself. You should reconsider your reaction, so as to prevent me from being offended. I'd appreciate it if you'd edit your comment to reflect this.