It seems like the divorce suit was less about his bongo playing than it was his choking her when she interrupted his bongo playing. Playing the bongos is a qui

It seems like the divorce suit was less about his bongo playing than it was his choking her when she interrupted his bongo playing. Playing the bongos is a quirk. Choking your spouse is assault. EDIT: that said, Feynman's divorce happened before no-fault divorce existed. At the time, a married couple wanting to divorce would often fabricate a story of spousal abuse, in order to establish grounds for granting one. This could be an instance of that practice.