Even if that were generally true, you can't just jump metrics from messages to men like that. People using the site respectfully could be the vast majority, bu

Even if that were generally true, you can't just jump metrics from messages to men like that. People using the site respectfully could be the vast majority, but still be drowned out by a small subset of users who copy and paste the same messages to as many profiles as they can find. If I applied your same logic to my inbox, I'd conclude that 95% of online businesses are dubious Canadian pharmacies selling Viagra without a prescription.