That was the royal "you" and wasn't meant to be condescending. It used to scare the shit out of me as well. The point I was making is that talking or being in

That was the royal "you" and wasn't meant to be condescending. It used to scare the shit out of me as well. The point I was making is that talking or being in front of a group of people aren't terrifying by themselves. You're likely to be worried about being judged in some unfavorable way. Don't be. Shit happens. Just get through it -- without drugs or Jedi mind tricks -- and you're realize it wasn't that big of a deal. Do it a few times and you'll be a natural.