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I have some friends who got married via an online dating site, but it was a paid one. I get that this problem plagues free sites like OKC or POF - is it also a

• masklinn 13y ago
  > I have some friends who got married via an online dating site, but it was a paid one. Note that it's not a post against online dating sites, commenters on both 2x and jezebel note that they've met significant others on dating sites. > I get that this problem plagues free sites like OKC or POF - is it also a problem on paid sites? Creepy messagers have as much money to spend as others (if not more) I'd guess, unless the site finds out they make people leave (and stop paying) I'd expect little difference. But you'd have to ask women using or staff of these sites to know/get a comparison really.
• tekalon 13y ago
  I met my husband on OKCupid. It took two weeks for us to meet and about 2-3 months for us to get married. That said, I did get a good amount of creepy emails/messages. My two sisters have both met their husband/fiance on OKCupid. I didn't hear horror stories from them, but I assume they got the usual internet treatment. I would usually just block them, occasionally respond 'not cool.'