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I'm not incredibly social, nor do I have a lot of variation in the clients I work for, but having a beard seems to be a positive attribute, if anything. I most
by tcdent 13y ago
I'm not incredibly social, nor do I have a lot of variation in the clients I work for, but having a beard seems to be a positive attribute, if anything.
I mostly notice the effect when meeting in-person; probably because there is far more subtlety in a face-to-face conversation. People who have researched me on social media know what to expect, and seem to have a bit of anticipation when I walk into the room. Those that don't know what to expect are surprised, but quickly settle into a smile.
One of the first questions I'm asked is always related to my facial hair: "How long did it take to grow that?", "I wish I could.", etc. It immediately lightens the mood, which works well for me, because I can then add the level of professionalism I desire back into the conversation.
I also find that it starts off a meeting with a bit of free respect. I can, of course, back up my statements, but rarely am I challenged the same way that some other members of the group are. I may not be the perceived top dog, but I'm certainly never on the bottom.
It also has a similar effect with older people and "tough" guys. Eastern women seem to like it, too; though they are usually very coy. I can settle in with a pretty rough group without any problems, which has allowed me to glean a pretty broad perspective.
I havent shaved in 6 years now, and have no plans to start. I tried competition twice and was a finalist on both occasions. A beard, however, is not all that I am.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/wh49owr8q6zstqe/1458545_10201232913696863_1012504867_n.jpg https://www.dropbox.com/s/wh49owr8q6zstqe/1458545_1020123291...
- shizzy0 13y agoThat's an amazing beard!
- icebraining 13y agoAgreed. I have to confess I trim mine regularly.
- rfnslyr 13y agoYou should coin a new "law". Something to do with beard and tech. Give the law a cool name too. Also, I ALWAYS comment on peoples beards. They love it.
- tcdent 13y ago> Also, I ALWAYS comment on peoples beards. They love it. I never respond negatively to praise, but do remember that I wear this thing every day, and get comments every day. It's simply what happens when you don't shave.
- twic 13y ago> It's simply what happens when you are a COOL AND TOUGH GUY and don't shave. FTFY
- wyclif 13y agoUsed to grow a pretty serious sysadmin-style or Linux beard like this. Then I got married, and my wife nixed beards.