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I have a few "flashes" of very clear memories from < 3 ... I very vividly remember a single moment of being in my crib (I recall the high walls, the feeling of
by nlh 13y ago
I have a few "flashes" of very clear memories from < 3 ... I very vividly remember a single moment of being in my crib (I recall the high walls, the feeling of the felt base, etc.) I have an equally vivid memory of the first night I spent in my "big boy bed" (mostly I remember experiencing fear and anxiety, and that wooden side rail meant to keep me from falling out). And I remember toddling around my house, seeing this incredibly juicy and tempting big button that just needed to be pushed, and then a lot a lot of chaos (it was an old-school panic button that set off our house burglar alarm ;)
But the flood of real memories doesn't start until nursery school, which was right around 3-4.
On a related note, there's a different type of memory that started to form later and that I can pinpoint to a VERY specific age...I refer to it as "cultural awareness/memory". I.e. movies, songs on the radio, etc. I was born in '78 and my earliest memories of that sort of stuff is all '85 (i.e. 7 years old). And what a year! Ghostbusters, Back to the Future, "We Built This City", "Born in the USA", etc.
I can barely remember any movies/songs from before then...maybe some in 84, but 83 is a basically non-existent to me. So maybe this is the sort of thing they mean when they're referring to "adult memories" ?
Aaaaand now I feel old.
- ToastyMallows 13y ago3-4?? Like I said below, I doubt I have any memories from before 13 years old. That's crazy.
- jmcgough 13y ago> mostly I remember experiencing fear and anxiety, and that wooden side rail meant to keep me from falling out It's theorized that the amygdala has a "gating" function for memory - we tend to recall memories more easily when they're highly emotional (especially anxiety, fear, trauma). I had a cognitive science professor who brought this up and asked people in the class what their earliest memories were - many of them were scary/anxious events (mine was moving out of an apartment and into a house).
- dspig 13y agoMy earliest memory is definitely strongly emotional - a recurring nightmare when I was 3 or younger (I know that because we moved house) was of a big tube sucking on my belly. I can't imagine that was a memory then of having an umbilical cord, but maybe someone fooling around with a vacuum cleaner...