I can't speak for everyone but I personally don't consider having different opinions on affirmative action programs being a "sexist asshole". If you really nee

I can't speak for everyone but I personally don't consider having different opinions on affirmative action programs being a "sexist asshole". If you really need examples of actions that do qualify as sexist assholery, let me know and I'll dig some up. They aren't exactly hard to find.