Optimize my decision making around building and maintaining relationships with those who are important to me. I am basically tired of living with the anxiety of

Optimize my decision making around building and maintaining relationships with those who are important to me. I am basically tired of living with the anxiety of _knowing_ certain relationships are important and _wanting_ to do something about it but not _committing_ myself to building those relationships. I spend a lot of time doing things that I now realize are much less important.