Well, honestly, after going years trying to change myself with "decisions" or willpower, I eventually allowed myself to receive the graces that God has been off

Well, honestly, after going years trying to change myself with "decisions" or willpower, I eventually allowed myself to receive the graces that God has been offering. I put "Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect" together with "ask and you shall receive". Take this advice however you will. shrug