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I really did not mean to come off as blaming the victim. Instead I'm promoting stopping things at the first onset. So in the context of "mutual respect" what th
by yogo 13y ago
I really did not mean to come off as blaming the victim. Instead I'm promoting stopping things at the first onset. So in the context of "mutual respect" what that means is that if someone is treating you in a way you don't approve, you let them know right then and there you don't stand for it.
- mikeash 13y agoI don't think there's functionally much of a difference between flat-out blaming the victim and "merely" saying that victims can stop the behavior with what basically boils down to "one weird trick".