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Well, I'd love to say it was my sheer wit and coding genius. But truth of the matter is, there's a good bit of luck involved as well. The secret to success: g
by Killah911 13y ago
Well, I'd love to say it was my sheer wit and coding genius. But truth of the matter is, there's a good bit of luck involved as well. The secret to success: get lucky. I got unlucky too. Found myself scrubbing toilets for $4/hr back in NYC at one point. It's nice to not have to do that anymore.
If you can code, sure you might not be overrun with money, but at least you can still earn a decent living. At the end of the day, the most "successful" people I know do not measure their life in money stashed.
The billionaire I mentioned, showed me that I didn't necessarily need to become a billionaire to be successful. He happened to be a billionaire and is successful because he's satisfied with who he is and what he is doing. Still wakes up at 4am to change the world for the better as he sees things, with what's in his capacity to do.
When I was in NYC scrubbing toilets for a living, I shared my sandwich with someone else who needed it. That was positive impact I could make given my resources. When I got money, I just bought into the "good life" BS and became a consumer. I lived for nothing else but me. Turned into a certifiable asshole. It's hard to see it when you're in the midst of it.
Once I began to see that I was lying to myself saying, "I'll start being me once I've made $x". I could be someone I'm happy to be, now. Six months of planning, get rid of crap, and learning to live with less and asking myself a many times a day, "am I living up to someone I can be happy with" seemed to remedy the problem.
I've lost a good bit of $ to startups. Friends say maybe I'm afraid of making money, maybe they're right. But I sure as heck am happy being able to help. I hope I can get myself disciplined enough to the point when I get my next hit, I'll know whom beside me the money is going to.
Wish you the best. Screw the losses, you know what you've built and nobody can take that away from you. Do the best with what you have, to me that's success. And if luck should shine upon you, hope you're still successful afterwards because that's where it's easy to slip up and take it easy. (Sorry if I'm too preachy, obviously I feel strongly about the subject)
- downandout 13y agoThank you for the well wishes. Hopefully I will get there. If not I may be scrubbing toilets shortly myself. All I have right now is my name on a patent that formed the basis of a company acquired for $64 million. Unfortunately, that doesn't pay the rent. But, I will keep taking shots until I drop dead. Hopefully I will get lucky.