I cannot upvote you enough. The way I usually put it is that if you're putting those blinders on, focusing just on you and your family, and living large, you're

I cannot upvote you enough. The way I usually put it is that if you're putting those blinders on, focusing just on you and your family, and living large, you're like a person a dinner who gets up, fetches the ice cream and cake, and starts eating out of the carton in front of everyone who's still on the salad. Yeah, in a sense you aren't hurting anybody, there's just something globally rude about it.