I'm an atheist, and there are atheists I don't agree with, but there isn't one way to be an atheist and I don't really expect anything from them except to not b

I'm an atheist, and there are atheists I don't agree with, but there isn't one way to be an atheist and I don't really expect anything from them except to not believe in god. I see feminism to be the same way, and I think you expect too much uniformity from it. Gender equality (I'll spare you the definition) includes many things, so I'm not sure how to explain it better than that, but I do think it includes not having unfairly strong, negative reactions to anything involving feminism and the common topics this kind of forum has.