"Responsibility" is one of those words that makes it really hard for people to talk to each other. If a person does not go out of their way to do the things yo

"Responsibility" is one of those words that makes it really hard for people to talk to each other. If a person does not go out of their way to do the things you listed, I do not consider that a moral failing on their part. Especially if the cost to them is more than the benefit to the other person. If you keep jumping on bullets, sooner or later you run out of flesh.