- you may get lucky and find a job where you'll be able to give all you can, but this is not probable. - most jobs you'd get would suck one way or another, pre

- you may get lucky and find a job where you'll be able to give all you can, but this is not probable. - most jobs you'd get would suck one way or another, prepare for a life of pain. - you may get a degree in CS, but this won't help at all to get a job. Do that only if you don't need to earn a living and want to have fun learning. - but since you don't seem to be entirely "financially independant" (what would happen if your wife lost her job?), there remains only one good alternative: keep being an entrepreneur. You would be a good co-founder.