I don't think SS is saying this is the only way to be happy in her book. I think she is saying that if you are a woman and you want to be successful in the bu

I don't think SS is saying this is the only way to be happy in her book. I think she is saying that if you are a woman and you want to be successful in the business world, here are a bunch of stories and anecdotes talking about life is more difficult for you, but you can persevere if you work really hard. I don't think she says the system is fair, and I also don't remember SS saying choosing other lifestyles is wrong. So I really don't understand this rant against SS. The goal of her book wasn't to promote unhappiness, it was just to share her very meaningful advice which applies to a lot of people (but not everybody).